How can I get over these sad and negative feelings I have towards my non existent love life? I cannot find a guy who wants to date me and I don't want to do online dating. I am a shy girl and I don't drink (hence, I don't go to nightclubs/bars/parties). Every once in a while, I will catch a guy staring but never approaches me even when I try to stare back at him. Additionally, every time I try to put myself out there, nothing happens or guys just ignore me. At this rate, I feel like will be forever alone as a loveless girl and I will never find a guy who will like me or want to date me.
Most Helpful Guy
There's many people who have this, it's not uncommon. Anyway, when you're interested in someone, don't wait for them to make a move0
Most Helpful Girl
Some personal consequences and life experiences just made it not happen so far. It doesn't necessarily mean they were "wrong" things. It's not a curse though it may seem like one. There's nothing wrong with being shy and not drinking because it's just who you are and you go with the flow of what you feel comfortable with.
Acknowledge the fact that this is just how life is and it's different for everyone and maybe it will be a little less painful.
"At this rate, I feel like will be forever alone as a loveless girl and I will never find a guy who will like me or want to date me."
You can't be certain of that and "forever" doesn't matter for now.0