I know its out of the norm... but i necer a relationship. I've been living for 19.5 years but i am 24. My life started at 16.5/17 but i was too shy to date before that i was physically ill. It took a toll on my self- esteem. Like who would want a sick girl? Also a lot of family problems led me to have no support system and which guy would want to date me? At 24 its beggining to worry me especially since im a virgin also (i was a christian who didn't believe in dating)
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your math doesn't make sense.
there are guys that would date a sick girl, but probably not that many. I've known a few and I have. church would be your best hope of finding someone like that... but it is no longer a problem for you physically.
mentally... change your thinking. Read the book "mind as healer, mind as slayer". Pray and talk to God daily, read the Bible.. do you do that? That should be a self esteem and confidence boost.
Stop worrying... worrying is thinking about things in the past you cannot change and things in the future you cannot influence. deal with the right now and you will be much better off. It will take work to change your thinking. Read the book "Change your life in 7 days".
Doing anything to improve yourself should help.
I am sorry you don't have a good support system, that is a big impact on you emotionally. all human beings need love and support from others. Find some good people at church and good friends that love you (care about you).
honestly stay away from boys for 5 years... forget about them, get your self esteem boosted first... men will just use a woman like y