I am a 23 years old ugly guy. I asked a question 3 years ago and I was saying that I was ugly and never gonna get a girl to go out with me. Opinions were like " you are not ugly, you can get laid sometime" and whomever I asked to go out with me rejected me and they told me the reason was my uglyness. Does my situation remain unchanged? Why am I being rejected continuously? Is this because I am ugly?
1mo Ok folks, I just gave up and I will never try it again. I am going to die alone and virgin. I accept my destiny
It's pretty difficult for a boy to not be able to get a girlfriend. However, here are five things that will drastically reduce or, even, completely get rid of a boy's ability to get a girlfriend:
1) The type of boy who stays at home all day and doesn't try to talk to girls for whatever reason... not even to girls online.
2) The type of boy who sees priorities as things he has time for and things he doesn't (ex. Thinks that school is of paramount importance. Studies all the time. Doesn't make friends and therefore doesn't talk to any girls casually. Doesn't take care of health). Priorities are not black-and-white. Too succeed, you have to try becoming a well-rounded person. This means thoroughly evaluating the importance of certain things in your life and allocating time/effort accordingly.
3) A boy who bitterly believes that no girl wants to be with him and "prepares for failure" whenever a girl does show interest (ex. not putting in effort in the chase because he believes that it will not end well anyways)
4) A boy who is not only unappreciative of all that he has in life but also has NO redeeming qualities. This severely limits his ability to appreciate a prospective girlfriend (girl ends up not feeling appreciated = unhappy in relationship) AND makes it hard for a girl to become interested or sustain her interest in him. A bad combination.
5) A boy who is not attracted to girls. Simple enough. If the boy is not interested in girls, he won't seek a girlfriend and won't be interested in the advances of any interested girls.
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maybe ur just going after the wrng girls. fr every persn that rejects u, there is one that would totally date u. u just gotta keep looking. it might even b ur persnality that makes u ugly. or the way u dress, ur hygeine... could ba lot of things but ur NOT Ugly
Work on being comfortable with yourself and things that interest you like your ambitions. Even if you really are plain looking, there is absolutely no reason a girl won't date you and sleep with you. Turn her on in other ways... work with what you have ;)
You shouldn't listen to whoever called you ugly. Boiii I've seen some fucked up looking people and YOU are not one them. You are attractive. I am not lying in any way because there is no reason to. You need to stop calling yourself ugly because that leads to insecurity and insecurity is such a turn off. If you were confident you'd get many more dates because your face looks good. Now smile my dear and realize that you'll find someone someday :)
You give up too easily. Life is long, and we're still young. Find what makes you feel special and confident. If you don't have one, start making one. Go on online dates, look up some tips on dating girls, learn to dress better, ects. Remember this : if you don't love yourself, you can't expect someone else to love you.
dude you look like a regular guy trust me i have seen ugly you are far from it
You're seriously not ugly, I don't know what girls you are trying for but something is up and it's not your looks , it must be your approach or the girls are way out of your league, are you only approaching white girls?