This girl I've been friends with through Facebook shocks me by sending me a text talking about lets get "fucked up tonight at the beach" "but let me sleep over, ill tell my parents ill be at my friends"... 1st of all I don't know how she got my number, & she use to be my sisrer's friend, its how i know her.. 2nd i only date woman not girls under 21. 3rd its Monday wtf. She would message me through Facebook but never anything out of line usually just a " heyy frankie, how you doing blah blah blah" I did notice she would stare at me hard when ever my sis brought her around, she would just keep starring. Anyways i told her straight up to stop the fuckery, im making too much money to get caught up with this shit. I've thought about telling her parents but they'll probably beat her. She has an older sister & im thinking on telling her instead. More shocking is that this girl is actually a straight A student from what my sis has talked.. What should i do? & im 26 grown ass man
"Listen, you're a nice kid and all but I'm not comfortable getting wasted on the beach with a 17 year old girl, it isn't appropriate, and I'm not comfortable with you lying to your parents and staying at my place. It looks bad on me and I don't see you as anything more than a friend, and frankly a kid."
Be very afraid. She sounds very immature and she could get you in trouble. It doesn't matter if she's a straight A student, she doesn't sound innocent. I know of too many young girls manipulating guys in your situation. She's can be one of those crazy enough to get her pregnant or something.
She's 17, less than 1 year off from being 18 and legally responsible for herself.
That means, tell her no, and move on. If she asks why say she's too young to be with a guy your age. Stop it with this "I'll tell your mommy" and "I'll tell your sister" crap. If she was 16 or under yeah sure tell them, but she is about to be an adult. Which means she needs to become mature and understanding. You 'telling' on her will only add to the drama and make things worse.
Time to play the game. Would you give it to her and then take it from behind from Mr Bacon in the prison shower? Or would you wait for a year so she's legal , and Mr Bacon's purple dragon stays away from your chocolate cavern?