Say, you've been seeing this person for a few months; you're not dating anyone else, but not yet exclusive. I believe the guy should initiate the first few dates, but thereon its 50/50.
Guys, do you agree?
Most Helpful Guy
Whoever wants to initiate the first few dates can, it shouldn't be strictly a males job. If a woman wants to then by all means.
Having said that communication, asking for dates should always be 50/50. If I find that I'm the one doing the work, I get a feeling they're not interested and I'm being a pest.
Having said that a girl I started seeing has been acting hot and cold. We've had 3 dates over 5 weeks and she is busy with grad school, work, etc but there'll be times where I'll ask to chill and she's busy but then asks to hang out days later? Thoughts?0
Most Helpful Girl
He asked me out but I initiated most of the date planning because I hate waiting for people to make plans. He was too loose with plans and I liked having a place and time picked, so at most he'd suggest we go out and let me do the planning since it wasn't his strong suit.0