I met this woman we hit off we exchanged numbers we asked if we were single and said we would hang out. From the start after that she was being really distant like barely replying to my text. I ask her out and she said she will let me know and never followed up... So a week later I text her to test the waters and she replied saying it's good to see me when we run into each other but she is not really interested in romance. Pretty much friend zoning me.
My reply: " it's cool no biggie, if you ever change your mind and want to get some ice cream let me know. I think you are amazing."
was there a better way to respond? I didn't want to be negative i wanted to leave on a positive note and I don't what I can do to change her mind :/
Most Helpful Girl
I'm PERSONALLY not the type to leave the door open to people who reject me, and here's why.
It suggests in a sense that they themselves and their time is more valuable than me/mine.
Personally if somebody friendzones me, I either quit talking to them, or place them in the proverbial friendzone myself. There's no: "Well if it becomes convenient for me later I'll consider taking you up on your offer."
If you don't get on this Graveytrain, it leaves the station without you.0
Most Helpful Guy
ya, don't be such a puppydog, no offense. that's the exact type of thing that got you friendzoned. You need to act like it's HER honor, not yours. You need to think YOU are the shit, not her. do that and you can be buttugly and women will come running.
women treat you like you treat yourself. it's not that she didn't think much of you-it's that YOU don't think much of you.
Do you bump into her often? If you do you can change it... otherwise you should start fresh in my opinion, this might be too much to dig out of in text. Do you have style? interests? are you proud of yourself? Do you act confident? these are mostly rhetorical-change the answers by working on yourself.0