If you're thinking of getting back together with an ex (spare me the " ex is an ex for a reason" lecture) who you were separated from by distance for a year. Is it better to know as little as possible?
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Other than getting tested, it's always better to know that there was someone (or multiple people) and not ask details. When I have gotten back with an ex I simply ask if they were with anyone and if so have they been tested. It's best to leave the rest in the past. You were broken up, they were a free agent as were you and STD's are the only worry.0