So I'm dating this girl, but the more I get to know her and ask about her, the more I know she's lying to me.
She's not lying to me about her feelings, I know that, but she is hiding many things about her life that I consider important, like drinking. I asked her if she has ever gotten drunk, and she instantly changed her body language and said no. Clearly lying, so I teased her about it and she ended up admitting that she tended to get drunk like once every one/two weeks.
Every time I ask something that may give her a bad image (like getting drunk a lot) she has the same reaction.
I've told her that I know she's lying, but she denies it, and starts laughing, knowing she got caught, but she never tells me the truth.
I like this girl and I know she likes me even more, but these lies are kinda worrying me; I don't wanna date someone who has molded her image to what I like, instead of someone who is what I like.
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Tell them they can tell you the truth and it won't make you think badly of them. It's not like you're going to saying, "Omg you're a horrible person I'm leaving!"
Maybe have her ask you questions like that and after seeing you answer them honestly it might could help her be more truthful?