She doesn't have much dating experience amd wants to save herself for her future husband.
Please give your opinions on it. Thanks!
- Yes, I don't want to deal with thatVote A
- No, but I expect her to sleep with me soonVote B
- I respect her choice and will wait until she's readyVote C
- I'll date her just to sleep with her and then dump herVote D
Most Helpful Guy
So many women that are virgins these days are terrified men will dump them when they find out they haven't had sex. I don't know if that speaks to women insecurities or how awful men are as human beings.
To me? I could care less. I'm into HER, and if she wants to wait yeah I'll be disappointed but if I care for her enough I'll wait. If she's the one I'll have her eventually. If she's not then I'll move on anyway
My girlfriend was a virgin who wanted to wait for marriage and we didn't have sex for almost two years until she changed her mind. Guys CAN wait if they love the girl they just choose not to because the girl wants it usually more than the guys does lol1
Most Helpful Girl
If a guy has a problem with you being a virgin, leave him be and move on. A person who cares about your well being and wants the same thing you want will not care. The same way if you were to wait till marriage, will your husband not worry about how the sex will be. All most men care about just as women who don't wait or wouldn't wait is performance because they believe it will make the relationship better. Its not. Its both people making an effort to make the relationship work. Those kind of men are just sexually out for themselves sexually and wants a person who fits their sexual taste. Overall your doing the right thing here.
Don't worry about other guys who wouldn't want you because of that. As long as your reasonably looking to get married in less than 4 years and not living together before you marry, there shouldn't be a problem. I say avoid cohabitation because it is not the same as marriage. And that includes all forms of sexual activity. But I can't tell you what to do, you will have to see and discover that for yourself. Don't stick around for a person who doesn't respect you or want the same as you. Not a person who 'fakes it till they make it' or attempts to your mind or question your beliefs and wants. They can't change you and neither can you change them. You can't fix them just as they can't fix you. Again, date somebody who wants you for you and wants to marry you by those terms, or just move on. Also, don't get emotionally attached to anybody so early without knowing everything and anything they are interested in or believe. Know their morals, belief's, if their religious or not, believe in God or not, values, etc. And only bring up about your sexual status if the question of sex comes about. But make sure you speak on that BEFORE becoming official. Do not become official with somebody who is not sure, is insecure about dating you long term, and doesn't see themselves getting married to you or want to have sex with.1