Haven't gotten that far but doing it when both are ready would be the best. None the less, about three months is kind of sort of the most I'd want it to drag out. But I'd most def not want it on the first date/in the beginning. Well I would... but then she wouldn't be long-term material UNLESS the circumstances were highly specific and we, perhaps, knew each other way before we started dating. So what I'm saying is that I don't want a relationship with a woman with whom I have sex before getting to know her on a deeper level. But I'm not the type to wait until marriage. That's far too great a risk. Not worth it.
I usually go at the pace the man sets. If he wants several dates first, then i'm willing to wait. But if he makes a move on the first date, AND i'm feeling a vibe, I'm down. For me, it matters less WHEN we have sex, but rather the baseline QUALITY of our sexual compatibility. As long as both parties are upfront with what they are looking for, I generally try not to miss out on an opportunity for good sex until i have found someone with whom I have built enough of an emotional connection to become serious.
whenever we feel both ready for it. Sex on the first date is possible but unlikely, the same for no sex until marriage. Definitely not what I have in mind but if I'm completely in love with her... I'm willing to wait. But idealy I'd say sex within the first few months, kissing much earlier. I really don't have any real minimum waiting times for being intimate with someone. If the moment feels right I won't push her away and say "noooooope, we need at least 3 more dates" lol.
And as soon as I start dating someone, I am exclusive. Not dating 2 people at the same time or hooking up while dating someone
Lmao, i do not date anymore. case closed, locked my heart up and then smashed the box with a sledge hammer. But hypothetically and on past experience... i take anywhere from 1 month to 6 months to even begin thinking about sex with the girl... if i like her that is. If i don't... a few days to a week. Until she calls me a pussy
I wish there was a formula, that would make life much easier.
You can be in a dating scenario and drop all kinds of subtle hints, and they all are ignored. Next guy dates her, says nothing suggestive, and she climbs him like a tree. You were not her cup of tea and he was,, go figure!
Not on the first date but kind of soon. Of course I wouldn't push her or anything like that. Having sex very soon wouldn't hurt the relationship if I really liked her it would just make me want her even more.
I think it very much depends on the compatibility/chemistry of the two people. My current girlfriend and I kissed on the second date and had sex on the third. I pretty much took her lead though, as I didn't want to make her uncomfortable at all. I definitely don't NEED to get really intimate right away, but she and I just click like no one's business.
I think it cannot be calculated... but it's better you get into sexual waters only after you found your soul mate.. you can't enjoy sex to the core without love... sex is about making love... without love it's a production factory :P
Like the fourth date. I used to be like " A man needs to wait at least seven months to come to bed with me". But now since i've had a life change and since I'm getting older.. four dates is fine by me and if the person doesn't keep seeing me.. oh well then :P
It depends on the guy. How I feel about him, how he treats me. With my boyfriend, I waited two weeks before sex. I just had a good feeling about him and felt safe with him. But other guys have waited much longer or never had sex with me.