do you become exclusive first.. ? or do you try the sexual waters before getting into something serious? and usually how much time is that?
Most Helpful Guy
Haven't gotten that far but doing it when both are ready would be the best. None the less, about three months is kind of sort of the most I'd want it to drag out. But I'd most def not want it on the first date/in the beginning.
Well I would... but then she wouldn't be long-term material UNLESS the circumstances were highly specific and we, perhaps, knew each other way before we started dating. So what I'm saying is that I don't want a relationship with a woman with whom I have sex before getting to know her on a deeper level.
But I'm not the type to wait until marriage. That's far too great a risk. Not worth it.1
Most Helpful Girl
I usually go at the pace the man sets. If he wants several dates first, then i'm willing to wait. But if he makes a move on the first date, AND i'm feeling a vibe, I'm down. For me, it matters less WHEN we have sex, but rather the baseline QUALITY of our sexual compatibility. As long as both parties are upfront with what they are looking for, I generally try not to miss out on an opportunity for good sex until i have found someone with whom I have built enough of an emotional connection to become serious.3