I met this guy online (of course) he is older than me seems like a great guy he is looking for a relationship we talked for a month before deciding to meet. We met and we ended up sleeping together I spent the night, everything was great holding hands waking up in the middle of the night for kisses. After that he has been very distant, we talked on the phone daily now he doesn't call. We stil talk but it's not lik before 😩 I got my hopes uop
He could come back, but that's usually a good sign that he was never interested in a relationship. Did you get the impression that he was really wanting to have sex on the first date? Or do you think it just happened? Chances are that was his intention the whole time.
Some of them are lying to you baby girl... but not me! I'm going to keep it 100 understand? Idc if you hate the truth or not, I don't want you making this mistake again or blaming yourself for weeks and what not. Stop stressing over this dude cause he isn't interested sorry to say, but you need to move on. You can't change his mind into wanting to take you serious for a relationship cause in his head you moved things to fast. The temptation was there, but so was the resistance. You gave in. He is just stringing you along just in case he needs some meow again or maybe he is just being nice about the situation by not telling you he doesn't like you, but that isn't being very nice... it's called leading you on. But at this age I'm sure deep down inside you know. I can only tell you that this is a lesson learned, next time you'll keep em interested with more than a KFC breast, thigh and leg. p. s. I'm not even letting anyone tap this and I can tell you that people like to cuddle after sex soooo yeah fuck him... not literally... hmm again. Best of luck to you in the future.
Sometimes sleeping with someone on the first date can be good, but it can also be bad. Sounds like the guy wanted to get into your pants and did without wanting to pursue any relationship. You seem to really like him. Sorry, it turned out the way it did.
:/ Sorry girl, but many guys are going to lose interest if you sleep with them early on. It's just the way that a lot of them are programmed. They're like hunters and they enjoy the process of a challenge. For a lot of guys, having sex too early makes them bored later because they feel like they've already seen all there is to see in the "main attraction". It can do something to their ability to stay emotionally interested.
If I may ask, what exactly is it you want to know about the situation?
This happened to me last week, so weird caus he went to the trouble of telling me about his family and what he hopes for. we spoke daily for a month aswell And then as soon as we had sex I never heard from him again. I don't get it he's a " nice guy" but he's also the biggest dick I've ever met. FYI men if you aren't interested just tell us instead of leaving us hanging
But he still calls you every day? That's good I think.. Give it some time and see how this goes for next few days.. Or till your next date. I know it doesn't feel right when he starts calling you less where it should be more now. But be patient now just wait and see how it goes.