No loss is the thought that comes to mind, if that is their nature, they are not worth it - Looks like you are having a streak of bad luck - Not all men are like that, keep plugging away and you will meet a good one who lives up to your expectations.
Lol the title sounded so dramatic so I got all excited until I read the description 😪 I guess it's because they lose interest, either they were only after sex and got it or didn't get it and decided to move on.
what happened on those dates... just getting to know? How long did he disappear?
It is immature... they should say what they think, how things are going for them. But a lot of people are not confident enough to do that or emotionally sound... that includes males and females. And then, after some time, they disappear, or "freak" and drop out... and we are left wondering what happened and what went wrong. you sound mature and emotionally grounded... could it be you are drawn to weak and needy guys?
I've been wondering why girls disappear. I dated a girl a few months ago for a month and a half and I thought everything was amazing. One day she completely stopped contacting me and didn't even have the courtesy to respond to any of my contact attempts or give me a reason. Its not just guys that do it, girls do it too.
girls are worse, they do that more than guys. but when guys do that it means he wants her to chase him to show she's really into him, or maybe there was no hint to her being sexually interested too, or he's a player. girls do it because they just lose interest easy because girls never are into guys in the first place. obviously.
Uh no, it's not insecurity or immaturity, it's called turned off. They're just not into you. Or they found someone else. Time for some introspection. You're not making a valid connection. If they're really into you they'll keep coming back. What exactly do you bring to a relationship that is of value?