We've only been dating for two months, but she frequently says "I love you" and a lot of other things that imply she wants to keep the relationship long term. See, she's really, really sweet, and I like her a lot, but I hate commitment. It gives me anxiety. We're both only 17, but she's talking about having a whole life together. What do I do? Can I tell her to tone it down without losing her or sounding like an absolute bitch?
Most Helpful Guy
If you didn't want commitment then why did you start dating in the first place? its not making any sense.
In that case you should have kept it only friendships.0
Most Helpful Girl
What's the point of you being in a relationship if you hate commitment? I get that the "I love yous" Are WAY too early, and it's something you should talk to her about to make things more realistic, but if you honestly see this relationships as very temporary, then there's no reason at all to waste your time and her time.3