one of my guy friends and I were hooking up and hanging out. I was under the impression that he really liked me but I knew he was still hurt from his ex. I spooked him by trying to ask him about us and he offered up all the standard excuses of not being ready to commit and not wanting to hurt me etc. and I said I wasn't ready to commit either but can we talk about this in person? He initially agreed but then didn't come over to talk. So I got upset and said we should just be friends. I feel like this all spiraled out of control. After two weeks we are finally back to being not awkward around each other but this isn't what I wanted. How do I fix this? Can I fix this? I'm afraid if I bring it up again it will push him away again. Should I just leave it alone?
Most Helpful Guy
" I was under the impression that he really liked me "
Hope you've learned not to assume when you guys just start banging right away. Wait a bit and make sure of his intentions before in the future!
You basically folded twice when he said 'I just wanna get fucked honestly'. What do you want? If you want to fuck you can probably get that pretty easy, it's clearly he doesn't want to date you though.1
Most Helpful Girl
You cannot fix it. It's more than obvious that both of you want different things. You cannot persuade him to commit.1