Hi Guys & Girls
I am at my late 20s with below average looking and height.
Recently, I met a girl through friends and immediately attracted to her. She is pretty and sweet, so I decide to ask her out for dinner which she agreed.
During our first date, we had a pretty smooth conversation, I paid careful attention, she was leaning in, agree with most conversations, the compliment that i am quite fit (which I am). During order, she was polite and prefer anything from the menu, the dinner lasts for around 3 hours without dead air.
Afterwards, we were supposed to head for another drink but she mentioned that she has other engagement, therefore, we part away. I was gonna escort her home but instead, we took a longer path to the train station.
At the end of the day, I offered her to another dinner, and later she suggests to go for drink instead due to she might be off work late.
In my entire, girls never look up on me, so if this girl is interested in me, then i could not figure out for the reason? Using me? or just treating me as a friend?
As per mentioned above, I would like to ask for some expert advice.
There was no hug, kiss or even hold hands,
Once we waved goodbye, she did not look back at all
Most Helpful Girl
Its important to read her body language when she is out with you as well. Does she seem comfortable? Does she give you direct eye contact? Does she laugh and is attentive with the conversation? When a girl is interested, she will compliment and pay attention to you. If she tries to break the physical barrier between the two of you (aka, touch your arm lightly when she laughs) then these are signs that she IS interested.
It's best to make her feel comfortable around you first before diving in for the hugs and kisses.2
Most Helpful Guy
I'm pretty sure you stand a chance mate. With some poeple they take a while to be able to hug, kiss, or hold hands because they still have a touch barrier. It is a mental thing. Next time during your date at least for a hug with her.
I noticed that one days when I was with a girl that I liked and wanted to ask her out that if I did not make it a point to touch her then I would just not. Because unless your close with someone not many poeple like getting touched.1