Is something normal for me, usually they disappear after the 2 date. The do not give me any reason or something, they just stop texting or calling.
The last guy we dated for 2 weeks and he acted very normal and suddenly he disappear.
I lost the count of how many times this happened to me, like yesterday I was supposed to have a date with some guy but he cancelled because he lost his wallet and now he disappear.
Guys, what things make you disappear without any reason or explanation?
Most Helpful Guy
Guys don't disappear for no reason. If you find yourself having the same experience repeatedly with members of the opposite sex, it almost always means that they are reacting to something that you are doing.
Without going on dates with you and observing, I can't tell you what you are doing. Maybe you are doing something obnoxious, like talking loud or burping frequently. Maybe you are doing something that scares them, like talking about meeting their parents or how many babies you want to have. Maybe you are doing something that suggests you have some unresolved underlying anger.
Are there any of these guys who you think would be good enough to tell you what happened if you went back and asked them? Not the most recent one or two guys, but maybe somebody from 4-6 months ago.1
Most Helpful Girl
What did you mention to them during the first date? Do you talk about exclusivity during the first date? If yes, those guys are probably players who are only interested in sleeping with you.1