She has a boyfriend i meed to let that play out. Thats about who we both are. She is the most amazing woman I've ever met i date other girls to find one who compares unfair to anyone else. She is my best friend in action. Lumps me into boyfriend generalities. Put me into possitions of reaponsibility with her adopted son. Has boundries with her boyfriend about our friendship. O have really friendzoned her hard. Because she is a friend of mines ex. She says if the zombies come come get me everytime she does a favor for me. The truth is if the zombies come ill need her. She is a cancer. Out of anyones league looks wise but from what I've seen values emotional connection more. She asks me into the most personal parts of her life on weighing descisions I really screwed this up and want to know how to approach it if she is ever single. Please only cancers or experienced cancer lovers reapond.
Most Helpful Girl
It's too late0
Most Helpful Guy
I'm a saggitarius if that really matters to you.
But yea, you're better off not focusing on what you "would" do "if" she's ever single again. Because this guy might be the one she marries. All you can do is be her friend, be awesome, make sure she feels really good when you are around her so that she misses you when you're not around.
Outside of that focus on your passions, building a business/career, workout and actually go out to have a dating life. Comparing women to another woman is fine initially especially if you're just getting to know them. But you still have to go out and have those experiences with women. If you don't, then you really will be stuck. Stuck in a painful whirlpool of sadness, because of your obsession over this one girl whom you've never been with (which, if you're honest with yourself, is part of the reason you're obsessed with her). You put her aside for whatever your reasons were and now that she's unavailable suddenly no other woman compares.
I get that. I've been there. Tho to a lesser extent. Just try to maintain perspective of the situation.0