I don't think many people actually say looks don't matter at all... but looks are less important than other things. Like, I won't be with a guy I'm not physically attracted to, but I would choose a guy who's a genuinely good guy on the cute side of average over a super hot guy who's an asshole. Or if they were otherwise equal, I'd choose a guy who was average-cute but who I have a lot of interests in common with over a guy who's better looking but boring.
They don't matter as much as personality. In my opinion, looks only attract you. The way you keep someone is by having a good personality. It doesn't really matter if the person is the hottest person on the earth or if they are average. If they don't have a good personality it won't last.
for me, looks are definitely not the deciding factor. yes, looks matter. but for me that's not what draws me to a person, it's their personality. their hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. so yeah, if someone is like really unattractive to me i will not pursue, but i wouldn't take someone just for their looks
Im more of a personality person but I wouldn't say looks don't matter. I mean the looks of a person shouldn't affect the opinion of the person, but someone that takes care of them self is always a good thing. But people that let their looks make them an ass is not good obviously xD
i would personally love a good looking man (duh) but I've met guys that are quite plain and not even my type at all, but i had some weird feelings for them because they were so funny and just fit me right:)
Because in the long run, if you're butt ugly but they get to know you and they like you then looks dont matter and its who you are on the inside. but if you just meet someone for the first time and are hitting on them, all they notice are your looks. looks don't matter when you know the person. but first impressions are natural
It's only part of it. Yes looks matter, but they're not everything. It certainly helps, but I would much rather have a hard working, caring, smart respectable man with average looks then an extremely good looking asshole.