Most Helpful Girl
Most definitely, Yes!
I went out with more shy guys in my edating experience than I ever did in real life and I met many great men through edating.
How else does one at a certain age date except online dating? I guess you can have friends set you up but you only have so many friends and they only know so many single people and then not to add you have the awkward thing of them knowing someone you know so you may always end up seeing this person again since you have a mutual acquaintance... lol! Edating is much better.
It will give you more opportunity to meet women then you would get in real life. And you have the advantage that since they are on a dating site you can presume that the women you are speaking with are interested in dating.
As for what sites, that is something that you should determine with statistics. The best site is obviously going to be the one with the most active female users in your geographical location that are looking for the same thing you want when it comes to dating.
I bet there are many men here that have determined their best odds for getting a date based on the site they use. I hope they share their experience with you.
I think you should definitely do it. How else are you going to date? I mean that question sincerely and seriously. What are the alternatives?
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Most Helpful Guy
If you use online dating as a crutch for being too shy to meet people in person, then you will likely be just as unsuccessful there as in person.
If you use online dating as a way to be able to more quickly search through and meet people that are compatible with your personality type and beliefs, then you should find it to be a positive experience.
Unless you're like me and incredibly unlucky. I don't log on to online dating very often, but last time I did a woman message me who I would have definitely gone out with, but I must have logged off right before she sent me the message so I never saw it, and by the time I logged in again the next week she had deleted her account. And the time before that, I found a girl who was definitely my type and she was on earlier that evening. I sent her a message, and she's never logged in again since.
Frustrating, but that's how it goes sometimes lol.0