Guys, do you ever feel like a girl is too pretty to go out with you, so you don't ask her because you don't want to get rejected?
Girls, do you ever feel like a guy should feel extremely honored to be with a girl like you because you’re usually out of his league? Like, he should appreciate you more.
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it does, it's not that uncommon to see a pretty attractive woman dating a fat guy mediocre looking guy for example. Sometimes guys date lower too, I think that anyone who will put looks before personality when it comes to dating is gonna have to get really lucky if they want to find a meaningful relationship.
And I consider myself attractive enough, so I don't really get that insecure about how I look. And even if I did I wouldn't let that get into the way of me approaching someone, you should never feel that someone is so much better than you that you can't even compare.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've gone out with guys who say THEY think I'm out of their league before, though it's not something I really think about them. Like I've never looked at my boyfriend and thought "I'm too pretty for him" or anything like that, that's just vein. I do however, wish he would appreciate what I do for him more and do more for me. I'm not saying he should constantly be buying me things or taking me out on expensive dates 24/7, it's just that when you have to ASK your boyfriend to act like your boyfriend, when he barely shows you affection in public b/c he's worried more about what other people think than what you think, and he won't hold your hand if his palms just a bit sweaty, & he barely puts in any effort for you.. yeah, that kinda makes you question things. He realises now how badly he's treated me and feels bad for it. Since he feels I am so nice to him (though I don't think I always am), he admitted he's always thought I'm too good for him and that I can do better, and says he has treated me like shit and feels bad for that. He still seems to want to stay with me despite saying all that though, he always gets upset to the point of crying if he thinks he will lose me.0