I save myself because I deserve to be loved and respected by the man who wants to spend his entire life with me. I fucking don't care about the pleasure that one night stand gives. It is huniliating to allow guys who want your holes use you. And that pleasure one night stand gives is what I can get from my man and even more than just pleasure.
I used to feel the same as you. Two years ago, I gave my virginity to my long-term boyfriend who I believed I would marry. But while we were together, I found myself standing up for girls who are slut shamed rather than judging them. Then, when my boyfriend and I broke up this year, I got some advice, from an older woman I highly respect, to go out and "experience" different guys. Learn what I like and whatnot. And why not? I don't lose value every time I have sex. That's a sexist and dated attitude. If a girl enjoys sex and is safe about it, then there's no harm done.
Girls who sleep around can still have self respect, they just choose to be sexual with a lot of people. There are no laws against it and they have the freedom to choose to do that. However, I will say (this is a personal opinion of course) that its much more attractive when a girl is saving herself or at least has a very low number of sexual partners. That's the kind of girl I'm looking for because I'm saving myself for marriage or at the very least when I'm in a serious committed relationship. Not sure that I'd like being with a girl who's slept with a ton of people because I may be "just another guy" in the sex department.
Generally speaking yes, but that doesn't mean that promiscuous girls have none. In my opinion, there may be more promiscuous girls that lack self respect, as opposed to chaste girls, but that doesn't mean that all of them do.
i meant to vote yes not no, of course she has much more self respect than other easy girls
One has to detest and at the same time admire the criminal genius of crooked Hillary “Rotten” Clinton and former President Bill Clinton. Consummate political game players, they went from backwater Arkansas all the way to the White House, and thanks to a Marxist media covering Hillary’s rear flank, she has a real chance at becoming selected (not elected) for the office of President for the next 8 years. The stories surrounding the couple’s criminal activity stretch back to the very beginning of their rise to power, in 1980s Arkansas. Arguably, Bill fits the model of the sexually promiscuous psychopath perfectly, and Hillary fits the profile of the power obsessed psychopath perfectly. Together, they have repeatedly and literally gotten away with murder if emerging reports of their crimes are to be believed. The revelation of this criminality is thanks to the internet, not sycophantic journalists who won’t do their fucking job. These stories are only a briefer on the mountain of dirty dealings involving this power-seeking couple. They involve allegations of everything from Bill fathering a son with a prostitute, a son he abandoned, to hanging out with a pedophile dozens of times on his private island, to trafficking cocaine then killing numerous people who witnessed and had knowledge of a cocaine drop in rural Arkansas, to killing nearly 50 people who had incriminating evidence against them, among countless other scandals you may not have heard of.
You do not understand the concept of "self respect".
Self respect is being proud of who you are, even with the mistakes you made in the past. To make choices that make you happy. It isn't about sex or nudity. It's to think that you are a good person, but not to the point of arrogance or narcissism.
Self respect is not to be use to righteousness masked by indignation. It should not used by people to talk down to others about their choices in life, especially by those who need to slam others to feel better about themselves.