I have been in a long distance relationship with this guy. But he is my very close friend and ex rn because we are not officially together. He was my first love and I was his first love. We always start to miss each other. Ijust can't let him go. I love him like crazy. I was in the United States a few weeks ago and I was there 3 weeks (I have been there like 5 times already) We STILL always cuddle together, he takes care of me and he is very protective. He always asks did I eat and what I ate, did I get home safe, and he brings me food and we go places together etc. We also hold hands, he put his arms around my shoulders and his hand on my lower back and everything so sweet things (I'm sorry that sounds cheecy) I was so stressed out when I got back home in Norway because of work and I said him that I miss him like crazy and how I can move on. I regret that I said I want to move on, because I don't want to. I'm so stupid. I still want to see him again. I also posted one quote about love in Instagram "Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love" that quote was only an advice for other people and I meant to say that I already found that person. And I meant him, because he is my support and hope and my everything. But I think he got upset because of that quote. Because after that he said me that it's best if we distance ourselves from each other for a bit and he also blocked me on instagram and snapchat. I want to give him space but I just don't want to lose him. I feel myself like an idiot because I always screw up everything. But does he still loves me? Or does he want to move on or is he mad at me
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It sounds like he could be finding the distance thing hard. Also he might have misunderstood that post because he wouldn't have blocked you otherwise. So if you can still get in touch you should explain what you meant. I doubt he wants to move on but the distance makes things hard and you both will find it difficult and will have to stay strong.2
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... But I think he got upset because of that quote.
Being Back in your own Country Now Somehow, and having even Said, "I want to move on," all of This has Him probably Thinking here, dear, that perhaps LDR is not for Him after all, and Maybe you Made him Realize with things you May not have Meant, that it is not Meant to be.
Try giving him Some Space and See if Maybe he will Come back on his Own while You are Home. And if not, you need to then Move on and Focus on you.
LDR is One of the Hardest to Have and to Up Hold of any. I, myself, probably Know this the Best from the Rest. I still have a Husband out in Egypt that I had Married a few years back, and how Whack... I have not Gone Back to be with him since then.
It Takes Two special people to Make the Tme and Effort and if Only One is Putting their Best Foot Forward, it can Grow and Go Dead in the water.
Good luck, @Auora951