I've been dating a guy for about 4 months. we haven't called each girlfriend/boyfriend yet but we are both committed to dating each other exclusively.
recently my ex has asked me out to catch up over dinner. i'm not sure what his intention is. if i see my ex for dinner, would this be considered cheating with the guy I'm seeing?
Most Helpful Guy
If you are going only for dinner with your ex, then it's not cheating. However since he is your ex it is certainly not recommended that you go to dinner with your ex. Whatever your ex's intentions may be you should refuse him politely.
If you go to the dinner with your ex it will not be considered as cheating but it would be very disrespectful to the guy you are dating with and it would be even more disrespectful if you go to dinner with your ex without telling the guy you are dating with.
Why? that's because it can easily lead to the guy thinking that you still miss your ex or something maybe going on between you and your ex and that can create misunderstandings between you and the guy you are dating with.
Since you are dating the other guy you should cut off all contact with your ex, you shouldn't even entertain any thoughts of catching up with your ex, be it through any means.
That's all I can say.
Most Helpful Girl
I can't imagine your boyfriend feeling comfortable about it. It's humiliating and disrespectful towards him
People who go to dinner with an ex have ulterior motives, especially if they have an SO.
I'd never put my SO in that position. I'd have absolutely no reason to go to dinner with an ex. I'd never let an ex think I'd jeopardise a present relationship over him.
Ask your boyfriend how he feels about it. His feelings should be priority in this situation
My loyalties would be for my SO0