I'm a 14 year old 8th grader and I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed. Girls in my class that used to be my friends 2 years ago won't even acknowledge that I'm there. I wouldn't personly say I'm fat but I'm in decent shape. Girls call me ugly, fat, gay and stupid cause I don't do well in school. I have recently become depressed and even thought about suicide. I have tried to talk to some of my friends but they just laughed and said shut up. If anybody has any help or answers to my problem that would be very helpfull
Most Helpful Girl
There's plenty of time buddy. Don't stress over nothing. There is someone for everyone. Use your good qualities and shine that way.
Also no one is ugly, you may not be Brad Pitt etc but you can improve the way you look and feel by working out and getting in shape, dressing well, having good grooming, hair, skin, smell etc.
And honestly just st be an all round awesome nice dude. It goes a long way!!2
Most Helpful Guy
You know how you probably just want someone sweet who cares about you and you can care about and make out with?
That seems totally natural right?
Well it is. For males. And the reason you want a girl like that is because men evolved to like women like that because they were good mothers.
Women aren't (instinctively) looking for a mother. They're instinctively looking for a father. They're a lot pickier about aome things. And they want very different traits from 'sweetness'. Tbh they tend not to like the traits 14 year olds have much at all.
Start lifting weights, be on top of your school work, read stuff that expands your mind, talk to people and listen to them, and find hobbies you care about.
A few years down the road you'll be picking between girls.0