Anyone with a whatsapp or line or Skype account, this is for you guys.
I would like to play pretend with you. Pretend we met on a dating site. You liked my profile and you messaged me. I liked yours too and we move the convo to any of these apps.
What I want to do is: chat with you guys (ages 25 and up please, since my usual target is 25-40, but guys 40+ are usually wiser). Just regular chat, pretend you're trying to See if I'm dateable. I'll be my usually self. Then give me feedback on what I did right and what I did wrong.
Anyone up for it?
Most Helpful Guy
It may simply be that you are texting too much. Every time you text becomes a burden on someone to reply. If texting is frequent, that takes away from the receiver the ability to do other things. Quickly, this becomes a choice... and a burden: "Do I do what I have to / need to do or do I keep this texting conversation up?" Always, text loses in the long run because people wish to be unburdened so they do so accordingly.
Yet again, this is an example of why calling is better than texting. When you call, you get that back and forth out of the way and make any decisions fast. While on the phone, the caller is more or less dedicated to the conversation. But it can end quickly so you can move on to something more important. Also, if the call goes well, it can quickly lead to better things much much faster than the annoyingly slow (and annoying overall) texting.0
Most Helpful Girl
Do you mention to them that you wish to be exclusive with someone? If yes, that's probably what drives them away since most people who use dating sites all they care about is getting laid.0