I am 19 years old and I never had a girlfriend. I never even had a kiss. Im a normal guy, I have a job, I have friends and I go out with them, I also play guitar and have a few more hobbies. As for the looks, I am about 6'3 tall and about 190lbs. I have short hair and a short beard. I am not a weirdo or anything like that. Yet girls aren't interested in me. I have friends who are girls, but I never had a girlfriend. And I wasn't saving myself for "the one" or "somebody special". I just never had a chance to be with anybody. No girl was ever attracted to me. Ever. I don't know whats so terribly wrong with me, but this is making me feel depressed and its ruining other aspects of my life. Help?
P. S. Don't write bullshit like "it will come, it will happen to you too, be patient" etc. If it was going to happen to me, it would have like 4-5 years ago like it did to everybody else my age. And 90% of my generation is having sex, while I don't even know what a kiss on the lips feels like. Obviously it will NOT just 'happen'
Most Helpful Girl
If girls are consistently turning you down, there must be a reason. Are you coming off as desperate perhaps? Or maybe you act too serious (most girls at that age just want to have fun). Or something else? Time to be honest with yourself about what vibes you're giving off. Unfortunately, I can't tell you the problem since I don't know you, so you have to figure it out - or ask a friend maybe.0
Most Helpful Guy
When you're walking around or waiting for a ride or something. Look for girls who aren't really doing anything. They could be standing in a hallway waiting for a class, in a line, in an elevator with you whatever.
Literally just walk up to them and tell them that they are cute and that you want to go out and do something with them (have something in mind because if their interested they normally say "Like what?") Just ask them for their number.
The world is filled with these invisible boundaries that society puts up we never cross them out of fear but the truth is, girls are a numbers game. Even a guy who takes a girl home every night will tell you that you will get rejected more times then not. You gotta have thick skin if you wanna play.0