So, I know this guy from German class and since the first time I saw him, I've been crazy attracted to him. We talk to each other, he's nice, all that colleagues thing. The thing is, I used to send him signals but he never showed any interest. I thought I was ok with that, I tried to move on but I keep catching myself thinking of him. And I know it's just physical attraction because we barely know each other but I can't get him out of my head and its driving me insane. I'm afraid of being bolder because of his initial "rejection"/apparent total lack of interest, and also because I made out with a good friend of his (it didn't mean anything, but I don't know how weird things would be if I now made a move for him). Long story short, he's hot and I need to get over it. Is there any way I can do this?
Most Helpful Guy
"sending signals" is never nearly as obvious as you think it is. Trust me guys will never understand what you mean unless you are pretty direct. (at least some amount of touching of their arms or notes about how you hate being single or something) Either give it a shot or deal with the fact that you will like him and try and redirect to another guy.0
Most Helpful Girl
Trust me, I understand your situation. I was also crushing on a guy that I had some classes with. I barely even knew him and we never talked or anything but I thought he was hot. As time passed by I tried getting to know him but as it turns out he's kind of a jerk, and just like that, I got over it.0