Did you enjoy it? Did you feel like it was the right time to do it? I'm sure you would answer is yes to those. Thats all that matters. Who gives a fuck what other say and that's really bs. If a guy would leave for that then he wasn't really looking for a relationship at all. I can see having sex on the first date or waiting a few months. It depends on the date, how well you know each other before you started to date, if there's a history. You have all these other factors that these people who say that don't ever consider.
Months? Who waits months to have sex with someone they fancy? Go with your gut and do it whenever it feels right for the both of you. One date, two dates, three dates or 15 dates. You choose between you.
I assume most girls have had sex within the first couple of dates with at least a few of their previous partners. So knowing this, I wouldn't want to wait months. I would prefer she shows the same level of excitement towards having sex with me as she has shown to her previous partners.
I say don't listen to the guys on here saying they'll leave you if you don't give them sex after 3 dates- they won't. Here's the thing: guys are pre-programmed to leave after sex; this is obvious with other species and it holds only slightly less true for men. I'm talking about the sub conscious and nothing we directly control. If you have sex with a guy before he gets to know you, a lot of the time they will get bored of you, for a reason they can't quite put their finger on. If he knows you well before sex though, it can be a completely different outlook. So I wouldn't say there is an exact time, but just make sure you and the guy connect on a deeper level before you become overly physical.
You should have sex before even going on your first date, so you know right then if he wants a relationship or not. Why wait, you could just be wasting your time and then find out that you wasted months instead of a single day on someone who only wanted sex.
It's all about the people in the relationship and how they feel about each other. Nobody should tell you what to do with your body. I do feel that you should know the other's intentions and yours before you do engage in such activities though to keep from causing yourself unnecessary pain and suffering if you are both not on the same page...
I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we hung out and we have been together a long ass time and have a daughter together. There's no such thing as too soon, if the times right then the times right.