This woman berated me yesterday for having sex with a guy I'm seeing "too soon". I waited for four dates.
She said a woman should wait months or else the guy will leave her after he "gets what he wants".
Do you agree?
Most Helpful Guy
Did you enjoy it? Did you feel like it was the right time to do it? I'm sure you would answer is yes to those. Thats all that matters. Who gives a fuck what other say and that's really bs. If a guy would leave for that then he wasn't really looking for a relationship at all. I can see having sex on the first date or waiting a few months. It depends on the date, how well you know each other before you started to date, if there's a history. You have all these other factors that these people who say that don't ever consider.1
Most Helpful Girl
Months? Who waits months to have sex with someone they fancy? Go with your gut and do it whenever it feels right for the both of you. One date, two dates, three dates or 15 dates. You choose between you.3