I'm not the type to get jealous it's partly because she slept with him a day before we got back together and we'd been talking about it for a week and also cause he has a fucking huge d*** (don't ask how I know that lol) don't get me wrong i'm easily 3 inches above the average but his is like 11 or 12 inches and since then i always catch her messaging him and hanging out with him a lot more, should I be worried?
1mo Someone asked so I thought I might as well say this, we were apart 20 or so days when she slept with him
1mo lol this keeps getting better just found out today that she's being seeing my ex for months (she's bi) and she is still sleeping with that guy
... F*cking huge d***... Is the Least of Your problems here, dear. She is Still Hooked at the Hip to this Guy, and with Going Back together as two Birds of a feather, this Love Nest is going to get a Bit... Over crowded. She is Having her Sweet A** cake and Eating it Two by Being with Him and with you. Even if it's through 'Messaging,' one never Knows How this Goes with Joe. You Both took this 'Break' and Yes, she Cheated, but now that You are Back as One, hun... Talk to her about this Dick and give her a Choice when you Loudly Voice. She is "Cheating" you in Other ways now. Good luck. xx
Worried? You should have never taken her back! I understand how it's technically ok to sleep with someone else while you are on break, but the fact that she was able to do it so quickly and easily after you two fell out shows that she never cared about you enough to keep her legs together for what? A few days? Weeks? A month?
Also, your girlfriend should not be talking to that guy anymore AT ALL to begin with. You don't talk to people you've had sex with while you are in a relationship with someone else. That is common fucking sense. It doesn't matter if they are "friends" because that doesn't change the fact that they had sex. I don't know about you, but I have zero tolerance for that shit, and if I were you, I would've kicked her ass to the curb a long time ago.
Unless you guys discussed and agreed upon set rules for this 'break' (like if you were allowed to date/fuck/get physical in any way with other people)... this is something you'll have to either get over, or break up with her. If there were no guidelines discussed beforehand, she technically did no wrong so it's more of a personal matter. If you can get over the dick-insecurities and general mistrust if she continues texting/hanging out with him you're obviously feeling or not.
I have a problem with someone sleeping with someone and then the next day getting back with their ex. It just sounds a bit insincere. Please don't be jealous about how big he is... honestly, guys are far to hung up about that sort of thing. Just be careful about her... 20 days is fine to meet someone new, but keep switching back and forth rings alarm bells.
Of course you should be your girlfriend is a slut and she freaking cheated on you. A break isn't the same as a break up, but that's definitely what you should do. Break up with her, she cheated and then continues to disrespect your relationship by spending time with him. Obviously she's into him and has no respect for you. Grow a spine dude.
Look if you two were on a "break" regardless of when she had sex with this man you have NO right to be jealous. You weren't together she did NOTHING wrong!
Now on the flip side. If you two are back together and she is still hooking up with this man, now you have the right to be jealous. Unless you agreed to an open relationship Im with you I would be very uncomfortable with this.
Why don't you just ask her if she plans on continuing to sleep with him or not. If she says no then let it go, if she says yes then you need a plan B buddy.
Get rid of her, it says a lot about a person if the first thing they do is go out and have sex with the first person they can get their hands on post break up. Also she is messaging him, has revealed his larger penis size to you. You've broken up with her and I would just kick her out of my life. There's so many better women out there for me to be wasting my time on shitty women like this.
Are u weak? You should go and beat that guy foo' ain't u the man? If u don't then he will get your woman and use her however he wants. If I were you I'd beat that guy and dump her after.. this is the best advice I can give ya.