The guy who I've crushed on for a while now, who i thought was attracted to me as well but he never approached me (i admit i was too intimidated to smile.) I walked past him the other day and I think he called me the b-word. It makes no sense, i would understand if he got over me because i didn't really seem approachable but to insult me like that when he's never talked to me?
Most Helpful Guy
Personally I wouldn't do that but I have a friend who has a knack for calling every girl who he thinks is out of his league a slut or whore. It's a self defense mechanism amongst some men (generally those with little self confidence) in an attempt to feel like it was them who turned the girl down instead of the other way around. If I never wanted to win who cares if I lose kinda thing.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well, he shouldn't be a crush anymore, if he's willing to out of the blue insult and throw around name-calling.
Who knows why though, he might have heard something about you and easily fell for it. Or maybe he had a misunderstanding in the way that you act or once looked at him at a certain point. I would try to avoid him to prevent other drama from happening.0