Guys and Girls, which of these personality traits is your BIGGEST turn off?

I guess there's more I could add, but I think these traits cover a wide spectrum. Feel free to voice if there's anything else you find a major turn off!

  • Selfishness
    58%(23)49%(49)Vote43%(26)
  • Neediness
    8%(3)7%(7)Vote7%(4)
  • Laziness
    5%(2)9%(9)Vote11%(7)
  • Vanity
    10%(4)9%(9)Vote8%(5)
  • Insecurity/Self-criticism
    12%(5)15%(15)Vote16%(10)
  • Other
    7%(3)11%(12)Vote15%(9)
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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's got to be selfishness!!! I can handle lazy. I can handle neediness, sometimes, SOMETIMES, it's even cute. Same for insecurity, though the most insecure ones are the ones who shouldn't be🤔.

    But a selfish Bish (excuse language) is like the worst man. Only them and there problems matter. It sucks becausr the girl I love is like this x 1000.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Out of those... selfishness

    ... but disloyal in anyway is a huge turn off. All his good qualities would be worthless to me if he can't provide loyalty

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What Guys Said 17

  • Either selfishness or vanity (I assume this includes arrogance). I don't think neediness is as bad as everyone says it is

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  • Selfishness is the most from that need.
    I don't like that "me me me" attitude.

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  • Bitchy, rude, condescending, and promiscuous

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  • Other : Stuck up her own ass

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    • Hmm Arrogance. Think I should of included that. Good shout.

  • o would say selfish or lazy. if ur looking for a relationship you need to think about both of you a team and how your gonna get things done. Being selfish and lazy take those in the opposite direction.

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  • if an attractive girl isn't even open to having sex with average guys then that will get you the boot from me

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  • Selfishness is the WORST! Would drive me up a wall, and is more likely to cheat.

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  • Insecurity and self criticism , could be a good reason.

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  • Selfish and Self criticism

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  • I voted selfishness. The rest don't really turn me off at all tbh.

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  • What about the trait of being juiced up bro?

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  • Out of these, selfishness.

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  • I don't see the "Pink And Blue Anons on GAG"

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  • Laziness (to a degree because im a tiny bit lazy myself) but mostly selfishness.

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  • Sarcasm is a complete turn off.

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  • Clinginess, selfishness, unfaithful, negative, no ambition

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  • Selfishness and neediness out of those

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What Girls Said 3

  • "Their motherfucking ego." I thought that when I read the question and just had to say it. :P

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    • In all seriousness, I hate when a person is incredibly rude and selfish. They always think they are right and know what is best. They refuse to listen to make adjustments for you in a relationship. Then there are the people with high egos that walk around with their heads in their ass. I could never date either of those types of people.

  • Selfishness is pretty bad in my opinion

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  • Selfishness + relationship just doesn't work, at least not for long.

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