I have recently opened myself up to dating again & have went on dates with a few different guys. I'm holding out until I can find someone that is secure in themselves because I either find nice guys that are really possessive, controlling, & jealous or guys that are so full of themselves it's just a total turn off. My question is the last few guys that I've went on dates with want to commit really fast. I feel like these are red flags. I'm talking about wanting to be exclusive after two weeks or less of talking/dating. Is this normal? I just got out of a really bad relationship (controlling & he was a chronic cheater) about a year ago & im doing my best to avoid getting into another situation like that again. How long does it take the typical guy to know that he wants to be exclusive & why the heck is everyone in a hurry to get there? The whole point in dating is finding the best match for you so why rush it?
Are all guys so quick to commit to women?
What Guys Said 5
Sorry, I've never heard of a nice guy who's possessive. Isn't that an oxymoron?
Committing fast *can* be a red flag, or not. It depends on how well you connect, how much time you spent together, how much you talk, etc. The larger red flag is whether or not they respect the fact that it's too soon for you.0
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The older they get, the more desperate they are. That's why they are rushing it.0
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