Because the vast majority of people out there in the world who are over the age of 30, reach their 30's or just 30+ years of age without ever having had a relationship before or still a virgin, it's almost always guys, men. Heck, even with over the age of 25 as well, something like this happens to guys more than women.
I notice this because i've browsed a lot of forums in recent years, websites where you can ask, post questions about your dating life/sex life, including this site, and whenever someone posts about still being a virgin or never having had a relationship before, in this age bracket, it's almost always guys, men, you almost never hear of women in that age bracket who is that inexperienced in dating/relationships.
Well if it is true that something like this happens to men more than women, it doesn't surprise me, because women don't have to be the initiators, and i remember someone said "what is your point? that women have it easier in this regard?
okay... so? if you were under the impression that life is fair, I hate to be the one to break this to you, but it's not." Yes, i know, i'm aware that life is not fair, but yet people still think men have it better than women in this regard, i know someone else also said to me: "The fact that women are generally not the initiators doesn't preclude them from being alone. Many women are simply passed up.", ya well i almost never hear of women in that age bracket who are either a virgin or never had a relationship before, but it's quite common, or just not uncommon for me at all to hear of guys in that age bracket who have never had a relationship before or still a virgin.
Most Helpful Girl
It depends so much. Extremely shy, socially awkward guys have such a hard time because they're supposed to make a move and just cannot. I think that's the kind of guy you've been reading about. On the other hand, women will accept almost anything from a guy. You may not believe me, but I know amazing girls who put up with so much b*llshit, or incredibly pretty girls dating ugly guys because of their awesome personality, etc. That's something most women don't get -- you won't see a hot dude settle for an ugly girl because of her personality. Women are more receptive of flaws in my opinion. So your answer is: I don't know2
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Most Helpful Guy
Basically everything you are saying is true to an extent. Yes girls don't have to do much work to get hit on, guys are supposed to do all the hard work. Its a lot easier to just accept this and work on your skills than bitch about it, because its not going to change.
Someone basically nailed it to a T below though when it comes to getting passed the point of actually talking to a girl. Guys have it much easier in the fact that girls are not nearly as visual as guys are. No matter what you think in my case studies its quite true that you don't have to be an abercrombie model to get a very good looking girl to date you.
If you are desperate to not be a virgin there a plenty of girls out there you could easily remedy this with. It just depends on the standard you are trying to hold for yourself. You could be the most socially awkward person in the world living in your moms basement and I guarantee if you swiped right on tinder long enough you will find a girl that will come over and blow you right in your moms basement and not give a fuck about it either.