she wants to just be friends.. she's told me over and over again on how much she loves me before but now she just wants to be friends to see if we could be a couple. she thinks we didn't spend enough time as friends to be a couple :( what should I do? I want to be so much more than a friend in her life.
Most Helpful Girl
Why do you love this person so much? What makes her deserving of your attention?
I have a bunch of guy friends and I have to say that no matter how gorgeous they are, once they are my friends, they are nothing more than a friend. I speak to them often and we share life experiences, but that is it! I've never even slept with a friend. This being said, she is trying to be nice to you. You really are overwhelming her with your crush and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Take a step back and chill. Don't be too available to her. We all like someone that we want to pursue. To pursue, that means you have to make yourself scarce.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well then slow down and be her freind. But act like your still trying to date her. Touch her more, Be a gentleman, Flirt with her lightly...
You two are almost there just go with her request. If you don't she will make you regret it. Don't push her just be with her and have fun.
Did you two start out as friends or as a couple?0