differences between love and lust.
Most Helpful Guy
None because to me there is no such thing as "the one". It's not like women (or men for the women) are in short supply. I would say even say.1% would be close enough to a perfect mate to be mistaken for "the one". That's 3 million+ of each gender. They only seem rare because you have to find one in a sea of 1000x that many with better odds in cities due to numbers (in rural areas tend to settle for what they find within 20 miles, even when it's not a perfect match, and then they end up with kids that are found in pictures that make fun of Walmart customers).0
Most Helpful Girl
I didn't like him in that way at first, so I didn't have any symptoms when I first met him other than thinking that he was a cool person and that he had a lot in common with me. When, a while later, I fell in love, it was an intense, inexplicable feeling. I knew he had flaws, but I still loved him anyway. Just seeing him and made my day better, and I wanted nothing but the best for him, even when that tore us apart from one another. Being in his arms felt amazing and I didn't have to ask if I was in love anymore -- I just knew0