Are there girls who only date good guys? Never a bad guy?
I'm a good/shy guy... and it seems like all girls are only into bad boys... then they get their hearts broken ir get abused and realize that they want to be treated better... then come to a nice guy..
I just want to be a girl's first choice, because if she was with a bad boy I feel like she doesn't really like me. She just with me because I treat her nicely, but deep down wants the bad boy instead :(
I dated a guy who I didn't KNOW was bad until he went sociopathic and threatened to kill my sister's dogs and later admitted to drugging animals before. But before then, he acted like the typical nice guy, so just goes to show not all nice guys are who they say they are. Nice guys can be bad guys too. Lol.
Nearly everyone who's dated, has dated a "bad guy/girl", unless you're still with them. But very few people are still with the first person they've ever dated. So that means nearly EVERYONE has dated someone "bad" for them. Why would I leave a guy that is good to me? That makes no fucking sense.
I mean some girls like bad boys but personally I don't. Sometimes it seems like girls like bad boys but that's just because those guys actually approach and that can instantly will make someone slightly more attractive cuz it shows confidence.
It's not a bad boy thing. Most women like masculine energy. I have girlfriends. I want to be sensitive with them about things and stuff. I want my guy to create feelings in me that help me build passion for him.
Women date "bad guys" because they are strong and aren't afraid to be themselves and have a personality.
Shy "nice guys" tend to hide their personality because they don't want to offend people or do something a woman doesn't like. However, they can never attract a woman this way because a woman cannot fall in love with a guy who has no personality.
You just need to be yourself. Some women will like your personality and some won't, but if you hide your personality so you don't have one then no woman will ever fall in love with you.
There are but I'd say most women will date at least one bad boy in their life.
It is quite annoying (don't know of a better word to use here) when you have a girl who tells you how good you are and how differently you treat them unlike their ex-bfs, who were jerks. Kind of a turn off, it doesn't say anything positive about her, but the opposite.
I feel you asker. I've never been a girl's first choice either, never even had a relationship. We just have to accept that guys like us won't be most girls' first choice and find those sweet girls that love us for who we are.