When's too early?
When's a good time to ask someone how many people they've been with while dating someone?
What Guys Said 14
When you're past the initial pleasantries - you can ask. Like, if you know enough to describe them in five sentences, you can ask then I think.0
When you're ready to talk about sex, both of you1
How about never? It's none of your business.1
After it's casual but before it's serious.0
Why does it matter? This question doesn't do much to advance your current relationship does it? How will knowing this bring you two closer together? If you're curious about your partners sexual past its good to wait til you are firmly in a relationship to talk about it, and never just ask for a number.0
When you're considering having sex.1
Right after the first time with them: "So how many does that make?"0
never as you will get 0% truth.
Since you are a girl, multiply his answer by 61
On the second date or after 2 weeks is a good time0
You don't. Just let it come out on its own... if it ever does...0
The first date and if I get a high number response I'm gone1
Before having sex. You want to know how many girls that dick has been in before letting it go inside you.0
What Girls Said 5
I don't think it's a good idea to ask that question, you might not like what you'll hear, depending on the person of course but then again, what's the point of that ❓ how will it better your relationship? just focus on enjoying your relationship and forget about who he might have/have not been with. I can not emphasize enough that there's absolutely no reason to know how many girls he has been with before you.0
Never. I don't see why you need to know that. All you need to know is if they're clean, so go get checked out together. After that, just get over the fact they may have a past, shit happens.1
I'd say that it's something you could bring up after the birth control or getting tested conversations. When you have been in a relationship long enough to be ready for that, asking those types of questions shouldn't be an issue.0
Simple. You don't.0
I haven't ever asked I wouldn't want to know1
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