okay, so what i want to know is why do guys always go for the girls who have long hair, lots of make-up etc? what's wrong with us girls who have short hair, like to read, play sports besides netball, and are actually intelligent?
Those are the sort of girls I go for. The problem is finding them - they tend to be at home nerding it up as opposed to out in the real world where you are likely to encounter them (speaking as an adult)
I met a few through dating sites but I would imagine a great many don't go on those or find them intimidating.
If men aren't going after you, it must be because you are unattractive in some way. You casually mention short hair like its no big deal when it is. You could be doing other things men find unattractive that you are totally unaware of.