We basically ended up having "the talk". I told him I liked him and he said he can't commit to anything serious right now because he isn't ready and didn't want to hurt me. But then at the end he was like "I know I'm blowing it. I don't know what I'm doing" what does this mean? I don't understand.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't understand either lol. Its not like you asked him to marry you. Whats the harm in going out on a date or something to see what happens.
It sounds like he does like you though, he just doesn't know what the hell he's doing. I would possibly give it a little bit of time and see if he comes around, if you are truly interested.1
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Most Helpful Girl
It means he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Back off from him for awhile and the truth will come out. Either he'll pursue something more or he'll walk away. It's hard to do but you'll know where you stand and won't waste years of your life (like I did once) waiting for him to make up his mind.
If you're cool with not having something more serious then just go with the flow.2