A guy I had been dating for a couple of months and I decided to mutually call things off, we didn't really want to, but we both have had a lot going on and hadn't been able to focus on one another which was getting frustrating and hurting both of us.
He messaged me and asked me to come to dinner with him and I was hesitant because things were tense but I agreed because he told me he wanted to "show me how much I mean to him". We live about 2 hours apart and he asked me to meet him in the city that he lives in.
I drove 2 hours and when I arrived he wasn't there, so I messaged and called him. He just ignored my texts and rejected my calls, and hasn't contacted me since. I tried texting and calling multiple times and stupidly waited around for another 2 hours before driving home. 6 hrs wasted.
What I want to understand is why would someone do that? Was it just to humiliate me?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like a major dick move. Has he contacted you at all since? like did he get arrested, or his mom was in the hospital? Ruling out some sort of emergency, it sounds like he's just an asshole.1
Most Helpful Girl
that's so fucked up smh1