I have a close friend. I'm falling in love with her, so I told her. She told me once that she likes me too but she just doesn't want that feeling and She just let that feeling gone, so she told me that she needs time to answer my feeling. We became so close, she even became vulnerable to me. But months after, she started to ignore me, she even didn't stare at my eyes when we were talking. I asked her why. She told me that it is impossible for our relationship.
Now she treats me like her enemy. She has been doing it for this half year. We met almost everyday. I can try to let her go, although it is difficult. But being ignored by someone you love everyday hurts like hell.
I told this story to one of my friend. She said that if I really love her, I should fight for her.
What does it mean? How can I do it? I've never been in this situation before.
Most Helpful Girl
It means your friend is an idiot xD
She has told you your relationship has no chance with her. She has told you. If you continue to fight for it then it just makes you 'that creepy guy that won't leave me alone even after I told him I'm not interested'.
Unfortunately, she doesn't want what you do. She probably feels you can't be friends anymore either because you are always going to want more from her and she's probably right to distance herself from you.
You can move on, do it! And tell your friend that when a girl says 'I'm not interested' it means 'I'm not interested' xD
Most Helpful Guy
Hahaha so here's how it actually goes:
1. She sees you like her. She is enjoying the "romantic" attention you give her (which is understandable) but doesn't like you for you/doesn't plan on getting intimate with you.
2. Head honcho comes in like a tank. She falls in love with him on the spot.
3. You don't understand what's going on so you ask your other female friend who tells you the chase even more.
4. You start chasing even more and now she's like "Ugghh this loser again... why won't he leave me alone".
End of story. This is how it works 9 times out of 10.2