I ask because some guys seem to want to completely avoid girls who always fight/gossip with their friends. But just recently I heard a guy say that he thinks girls who don't hang out with other girls makes her weird. I mean, what if you knew a girl that didn't really hang out with guys or girls, (and it was her choice), would that scare you off?
GUYS ONLY! What do you think when a girl says she doesn't hang out with other girls? (Because girls are so dramatic)?
What Guys Said 12
I mean, if it's just that she doesn't like doing typically "girly" things and doesn't have many girl friends because of it, that's fine, but she should at least have a couple of female friends that she meshes with.
A girl who dislikes other girls enough to avoid contact with them, and says that all girls are "dramatic" is a bit of a red flag.
Because all girls are NOT dramatic. The very fact that this girl doesn't like drama is evidence enough of that.
"what if you knew a girl that didn't really hang out with guys or girls"
That sounds like you are a loner, in a good way i mean, you like your alone time, and even if you enjoy company you aren't looking for it. For people that want to be surrounded or are accustomed to it can be a little difficult to understand.
And, no, is not weird at all, just another type of person.1
Can't lie, I'd be a bit concerned. Not getting along with an ENTIRE GENDER, is abnormal.3
Sure, why not? Wouldn't scare me off in the slightest. We all have our people. :P0
I see nothing wrong with that.0
No it would only scare me off if she only had male friends. With the height in popularity of FWB's, it wouldn't surprise me if she had slept with some of those friends.0
Usually you get whole army of guys with her, she likes the attention and would do anything for it. Most of those guys are friendzoned anyway and will try to find any oppurtunity to talk sh*t about her current boyfriend. It's just so much drama sometimes.
Not everyone is like that, but it's my experience.0
Girls who can't get along with other girls, and only have guy friends usually have a lot of problems... They tend to seek attention, play games and are very insecure. They are drama queens too.2
Some guys get a bit suspicious when a girl has only guy friends.1
It might be code for "I screw a lot of guys!"1
What Girls Said 3
I don't know why anyone would be in a relationship with a self hating person. It's like hearing a white guy say "I don't hang out with white people because they're so racist." It's a turn off when someone is self hating in my opinion. I would not want anything to do with them.
Not wanting to hang out with racists, drama, etc doesn't have you stand out. You're not a special snowflake.
Im a girl and I can't help myself I have to answer. I am one of those girls... Personally I was raised with all male family members so I am a big tom boy. So for me it is easier to make friends with guys over women. I mean how many women are willing to talk about sports and go to strip clubs with me?2
Hahaha I'm a girl and I'm awnsering😛. I'm like that I've always had more friends who are guys.0
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