i don't understand why people are against older guys and younger girls. As long as they are both legal and everything is consensual then it is fine
Older guys younger girls?
What Guys Said 23
In my opinion if both are adults is fine, but i understand a little why other people don't see it that way.
One will have more experience in life than the other and it would look like it is getting some type of advantage over the younger one with it. Then is the time left, 2 people of close age can enjoy a relatively long relationship, meanwhile and wide age gap only ensure that this will be shorter.1
Let say the guy is 21 and the girl is 16 , i think it is ok even though she is under age , because some girls at 16 look like they're in the 20's.
Where as if the guy is like 65 and the girl is 18 that isn't forbidden by the law and i think it is morally wrong but still accepted in our societies...0
Yeah, i agree with you. Still, older dudes can trick 18 yo... may end bad for them.
But nice old guys are ok. Girls just need to be cautious.0
i have no issue being with women over 180
Because old women are old and ugly. And no one wants them. They rode their cock carousel and now they hate young girls for doing the same.0
agreed. the younger the better1
I am not against it. If they keno what they are doing then, I see nothing wrong in it.0
I am 33 and my wife is 211
Well, I know the legal line is 16 where you are (and where I live). It used to be 14 where I am. But that was more like an absolute minimum... a lot of people still think that it's a challenge to have a reasonable relationship where say one person is in high school and the other is, for all intents and purposes, an 'adult'.
I have really mixed feelings personally, I mean if it's okay for 16 and 17 year olds to just hook up and fuck, why is it not okay for a 16 year old to fuck a 30 year old? Casual sex isn't illegal.
One flip side is that yeah, those in the 14 (where legal) to say 17 and even frankly 18-19 range MAY be more easily manipulated than those who are older. But it's a may. Personally I'd view it case by case. But some people are just like 'old predators exploiting young girls'.
Finally, as you move to say talking about 20-25 year old women with older men, it's mainly bitterness. Young men and older women lose out slightly in the dating market because of the older male-younger women relationships (also teen males lose out, as many teen girls are dating 20-something guys, though not as many as 20-something girls date older, so 20-something guys lose out on average.0
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What Girls Said 10
I don't understand it either... hypothetically speaking, if a woman were 17, about to turn 18 in a week. And she met a man who was 23. They clicked instantly and fell for eachother hard but they waited for her to turn 18 to become a couple. They got married 10 months later. Is there something wrong with that?1
Because I don't like older people with young teens. It's obviously not always the case, but the older person has an easier time manipulating the young bird. It just seems predatory.0
It's totally fine if the girl is legal.1
I can feel you. I always get shit from people when I say that I like older guys2
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