So I finally dropped that loser I've been whining about on here for weeks. I met someone new, things are moving very fast but so far I love the way he treats me. He's taken me to 2 concerts, he calls me (not text) like every 4 hours and I think he's awesome and hot. Problem is I'm 33 & he's 45. I don't really care or even think about it but my family thinks he's too old. Even tho we're both adults my mom and sister say ima be mad when I'm in my 40s and he's 60. plus my mom says it's weird bc he's only 15 years younger than her. what do you think?
Hey there @Megabeauty! After reading your post, your family can have their opinions however it's your choice who you choose to date at the end of the day! In my opinion age is just a number so if you're both happy then that is all that matters 😆 👍
of course literally it is just a number but with age comes vast differences in experiences and majority. that said i don't think there is anything wrong with a 12 year age difference when the ages are 33 and 45.
the differences in life experience between 18 and 30 is pretty significant much less potential differences when it's 33 and 45
"but my family thinks he's too old. " It's your family's right to think, it''s yours to choose. But age is more than a number. Anyway, it should not be a concern to you not to be with the one that loves you and which you love. Is he a good person? Is he serious? Are you into each other? Those are by far more important criteria than age. Also you're only 12 YO apart from each other. It's not that bad, really.
Nothing is wrong with your situation that you're in. You're a grown if you live your life and if you want to be with a man who is 16 when you're 40 you do it just make sure that man is now working out so when he 16 he looks like he's 40 because that will be a big problem. I only date older women Who are at least 10 years older than you so I don't have a problem with that. But she's going to need to be like wine where she ages but look good while doing so
Nooope. If I'm doing great in life at age 32, you can bet I'll be going for a 23 year old woman, not for a 35 year old. Age is a very important number. You do what you want though, 18 with a 70 year old? I'm not judging.