Honest opinions brah
Most Helpful Guy
Currently single, but concerning my past relationships, I liked them for both. I need to be attracted to a girl for me to date her. People can say that's shallow but nothing is better than thinking your girlfriend is the hottest thing on this planet. Constantly groping each other in public when no one is looking, can't keep your hands off each other, fucking each other like jack rabbits throughout the day.
THAT being said.. a girl only needs to be a 5/10 in my books for me to date her. Over time she can turn herself into a 10/10 depending on how much she impresses me. Relationships more or less mental attraction after those rose colored glasses come off. I've dated hot airheads and it gets boring AF.
Regarding just hookups on a fun night out, I'm shallow as fuck. I can be as well.. I look better than most guys. I work hard to maintain some type of status and I work fucking hard to maintain my body.
Unfortunately the dynamic in the night scene is sort of fcked. I used to work as a bouncer and I noticed a pattern of thirsty guys validating 5/10 girls as if they were goddesses. This cultivates this false ego, which yields a repercussion of women only shooting for top tier guys. I can usually always pull a 5/10 girl given the right setting. Once in a blue moon I can pull a girl that is top tier 8/10ish but it rarely happens.
>There is a dynamic shift between relationships and a one night stand.. relationships bring in a much more complex attraction that is stimulated on a mental level as well as physical.
>People are generally much more shallow with one night stands.4
Most Helpful Girl
Both, although I have to admit that I was attracted to his personality (more) first before his looks.
While he isn't exactly conventionally good looking, there's something about his looks (which I can't put a finger on) that I find very attractive <3
That... and I love his body. YUMS!0