So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 years now. Everything in our relationship is fine for the most part, except that he keeps going back to ex's or dating sites.
He hasn't physically cheated on me, but for the past 5 years I've constantly caught him either talking to an ex or on a hook up or dating site like tinder and pof. For the most part it has always been innocent, but everytime I've seen it, I've asked him to delete them and he's super apologetic and deletes it... For a few months and then gets right back on it.
Just 3 days ago, I saw it pop up again and even though he's apologetic and everything again, I don't know if I should cut my losses and move on or what I can do about this situation!
Most Helpful Guy
If it was just ex's i would say he miss having them in his life i miss my ex every other day but never message her respected for my new girlfriend she was my friend before we dated. But if he on hook up sites talking to random girls i say why not test him?2
Most Helpful Girl
It's not innocent. He's continuing to do it when he's been in a relationship with you for the last 5 years. I'm sure it hurts you so much to see him on those sites and searching for other women.
Honestly, what I would do is say "Oh don't worry, stay on those dating sites because I am done!". Because you deserve so much better!
It must hurt to think that he doesn't think you are enough that he has to go on these sites. Or that despite being in a relationship he needs to go on these sites and search out other women.
I would cut your losses. It might hurt now, but you don't deserve to be with a guy who has one foot out of the relationship.0