As someone whos been suicidal for years. Any action he do or might do only falls on himself, its not your fault. I experienced people being cold, cruel, heartless and so on a lot. But I never would want anyone to stay with me out of pity. Its not love from my side if I scare/force someone to be with me just cause im suicidal, its a shitty thing to do. So if he needs to be reminded. He dosent really love you or care about you, if he has to scare you, in order for you to stay with him. Its better either way, to be loved by the right person. And you are not for him, nor him for you.
You've got to be you. If you want to let him go, do it. You shouldn't be held captive to his thoughts and rants. You could talk to a suicide counselor, too, and ask them what they think is the best course of action in this case. They're trained to deal with situations like this. They can give you good advice.
There is no good option. Best of all bad options is to rip it off like a band-aid and then completely ignore him forever. This will make him angry at you, which is the fastest starting point for him to move on. If he kills himself, he was already going to, you just convinced him not to wait.
just tell him straight - the old Golden excuse "there's no chemistry. you're too nice. you'll find someone else, im sorry" been there done that -on me. it worked fine, since now im pretty much more stronger than before and i can just shrug it all away
Just leave by honesty. Anything other than that can cause a guilt of something wrong happens. Honesty won't give u guilt in case he really did anything stupid or suffer terribly. . . . But honesty may make u feel stupid if in case he finds someone hotter than u 😝.. true story no offence! .
Get his friends and family involved. They don't want to see him die either and can provide that support that he needs. You can't stop him from making decisions, but at the same time, that's his choice. If he liked another girl, she would be in the same position - it just happened to be you.
aren't you then just proving he's right... that noone cares about him?
A lot of bad answers on here.
Emotionally unstable guys have a lot going on in their mind, you just have to be nice and let him down gently. That's all you can do, don't feel guilty about it. If you are scared about suicide you can talk to one of his friends, or siblings or someone.
Just tell him straightforward.
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