I've been going after this girl for awhile now, the problem is she lives 8 hours away from me so I don't see her very often. I got to see her last weekend and I finally decided that my game was not getting me anywhere since I rarely get to see her. I just straight up told her, look I really like you, I want to try to make something work between us. I will say this should not be a shock to her, the way we act, and we've already kissed before this and been on dates.
I couldn't think of a better way to do this, I just kinda threw a hail mary. However we talked about everything and I explained why I felt I had to spring that out, and she understood. Then she told me "well I need to think about this, I might be moving and I'm kind of dating someone right now". She said it wasn't serious, it was more of the moving part.
I'm lost on what I should do. She definitely likes me, we make out and everything, I told her I'm willing to find a way to make it work. The options I've been going over are:
A: waiting for her to "think" and not peruse other girls
B: Call her up and not get an answer per-say, but at least try to get some sort of re-assurance if I should be waiting around or not.
I'm heavily leaning on B, because I don't want to wait around for god knows how long, however I'm not exactly sure what to say. I've already gone off my script far enough, to now end up in a high school esque situation where I'm getting "maybes"
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It kind of sounds like you already know what you're going to do. You already told her what you thought and got a pretty mixed review. It probably would have been a better idea to delve deeper in the subject while you already talking about it instead of just agreeing with it. Its too late for that now, I guess you need to figure out if dating a girl that lives that far away is really worth it, I'm assuming its not in the same state even.0