I asked the girl I'm dating if she's like to have dinner with me this weekend, and she told me she would love to but couldn't and wondered whether I was free next week.
Most Helpful Girl
How is this a red flag? If she wants to do so next week then do so next week. Do you find it a problem if she didn't go for this weekend? If she's busy working or in school it shouldn't be a problem. Either way its her reasons even if she didn't tell you. Now if she keeps doing this more than 3 times, then yes it is a red flag or she could be just avoiding to date you for some reason. After that, you need to figure out why she's being dodgy in this when she is the one who said yes to a relationship.1
Most Helpful Guy
If it keeps happening its a red flag, but if it only happens once she probably legitimately has something going on. I was dating a girl who strung me along for a couple weeks with excuses before she just stopped talking to me at all, that's when you need to be concerned. She's dating you so she should make time for you, if she doesn't then she's probably not all that interested.0