I totally agree with you. As a Christian, i've decided to wait on God for the right one. I'm still a virgin and i've never had a boyfriend. I don't even know how to talk to guys and never took interested in talking to them because I want to be found by the right one. Virginity is very valuable ( a girl's precious gift) and once you loose it, you could never get it back. I want to loose it to someone special, someone that I truly love and will be with forever. I want my husband to be my first love and the man that I will grow old with ( my lifetime partner). Don't listen to anyone whose against this, keep on waiting for the right one and trusting God for him. - God bless :)
I've been one woman's first, which was only really special to me because, at that time, she was very special to me.
I've yet to be some woman's last, but to be honest that's kind of my ultimate... fantasy? I don't know why, but there's something sooooooooooooo appealing to the idea that my girl will belong to me -- and to me only. It's really sexy.
I would be honored to my future girlfriend's first and last guy, but its not a requirement. The only thing that would make me hesitate is the thought that one day she would wonder what she missed out on by not dating any other guys before deciding to be only with me. On the flip side I feel like I'd be very special to her because I'm the one and only man that's been in her life and I wouldn't have to worry about her comparing me to ex boyfriends and what not. So yes I think that'd be a very special feeling to be her one and only.
The problem with being her "first" man is that a time will come when she wonders if she missed something. You will always be nervous worrying that that time will come. If she's already had the experience, then I think she is less likely to be curious later. I think a woman who had no experience before marriage is more likely to cheat sooner or later.
I think thats utterly pointless and a tragic waste of being alive.
Some guys might like thay you're the first, even though they might privately find it a bit sad.
As for the last guy you'll be intimate with, how many people are that naive? What was it, 77% of marraiges end in divorce? (Correct me if Im slightly out on that number, think that's the average). As a man, I would say its not worth it. Thats a lot of sacrifice for the mild selfish satisfaction of one guy.
No way, I would much prefer someone who already has experience with other people so they don't make the stupid mistakes people make without any experience. Being the last is like whatever, but if our relationship doesn't work out and we're pretty young, then hopefully she'll find someone else eventually...
Would you rather an old beat up pair of shoes or nice new ones to break in yourself? I enjoy helping inexperienced ladies "find" themselves. Sometimes it can be a real chore but he'll appreciate that you are not an instant gratification, consumer drone who follows the crowd. You're probably disciplined and thoughtful about how you live you life. Those are 2 huge qualities most women lack. Good luck finding a worthy man.
In a day and age where women and men sleep around and treat sex like it's no big deal and it's a spot of mindless entertainment I would feel humbled and privileged if a woman had this attitude in regards to me.